This week, Gloucester marked a significant milestone with the unveiling of its first suicide prevention bench, a heartfelt project brought to life by Mary Barnes, a 75-year-old local resident whose determination has inspired many. Mary’s journey began after the sudden loss of her partner of 16 years, Paul Close, who tragically took his own life in July 2024 at just 64.
Two years after Paul’s passing, Mary channeled her grief into action. Learning about the charity Legend on the Bench—established by former footballer Micky Hazard and his sister Michelle, who founded it following the loss of her son—Mary was inspired to raise funds for a bench in Paul’s memory. Remarkably, she collected over £2,300 in just two months through social media outreach alone.
On July 15, the bench was officially revealed outside the Phoenix Café at Abbeydale Sports and Community Centre, with supporters including Gloucester’s Mayor Adrian Graham and Micky Hazard, who traveled from Essex for the event. The bench features the powerful message “Someone is always listening,” alongside a plaque listing helpline numbers for organizations like Samaritans, M.I.N.D., Suicide Prevention UK, Childline, and Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide. A solar light crowns the bench, transforming it into a beacon of hope visible day and night.
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Mary went further by inviting the community to share the names of those they have lost to suicide, and alongside Paul’s name, 30 others now appear on the bench’s plaque. Mary explained, “I wanted this bench to be more than my story; it’s about giving a voice to everyone affected. The 31 names remind us all that suicide touches many lives in our community.”
Mary reflected on Paul’s struggle, noting the challenges of his recent early-onset dementia diagnosis and the unspoken feelings between them. “He never showed me what he was wrestling with. We shared plans and jokes one day and faced tragedy the next. The shock was devastating,” she shared.
The overwhelming support from friends, family, and even local officials has been a source of comfort to Mary. “It’s been emotional, but knowing the community stands with us makes all the difference,” she said.
Micky Hazard praised Mary’s efforts as “absolutely incredible,” acknowledging the profound impact of these benches in raising awareness and offering solace. “Every bench we unveil carries deep emotions—not just for the lives lost but for the hope it sparks,” he said.
Mayor Adrian Graham echoed this sentiment, highlighting the bench’s role in breaking the stigma surrounding mental health. “Mary’s work shows courage and compassion. This bench is a step toward open conversations and support for those affected by suicide in Gloucester.”
The suicide prevention bench stands today as a symbol of remembrance, understanding, and hope. It is now accessible to all at Abbeymead Community Centre, inviting anyone in need to pause, reflect, and remember that help is always within reach.