The family of a woman laid to rest at Coney Hill cemetery and crematorium in Gloucester are dismayed as heavy machinery continues to drive over graves, causing damage and distress for grieving relatives. A recent Gloucester City Council meeting revealed the concerning state of the site, with images showcasing toppled headstones, bollards, and tracks from vehicles traversing graves. Diane Hemming’s grave, in particular, has suffered extensive damage and is visibly sinking due to repeated driving over. The family’s efforts to protect the grave with a border have proved futile, leaving them feeling disheartened and disrespected.
Kayanne Harris, the partner of Mrs. Hemming’s grandson, expressed the family’s frustration, “We have tried for years to keep some respect for her. We had flowers there and they were squashed.” The family emphasizes that these actions show a lack of reverence for the deceased and their resting place. Despite the absence of available plots nearby, heavy machinery continues to pass over existing graves, disregarding the families’ efforts to maintain a dignified memorial for their loved ones.
Gloucester City Council has defended its stance, stating that items placed on graves are at the risk of the deedholder, absolving the council of any responsibility for damages. The rules restricting the placement of items such as boardings, kerb sets, or chippings without approval from a stonemason aim to preserve the grounds and ensure the safety of workers and visitors. However, Community Independent councillor Alastair Chambers has raised a motion to review these regulations, which gained approval amidst a petition signed by over 1,000 individuals calling for changes.
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The council’s spokesperson stands by the use of operational equipment to dig graves, aligning with national practices and the necessity of navigating the cemetery site. Despite this, Councillor Chambers and the grieving families advocate for reconsideration and a return to more compassionate and respectful practices. The Council has committed to conducting a review of the rules and regulations surrounding cemeteries in Gloucester to ensure alignment with best practices.
The families affected by this issue are determined to uphold the dignity of their loved ones' final resting places, and continue to rally for changes in how graves are treated and cared for.