Jane Bedenham, 62, from Evesham, Worcestershire, has been visiting Whitemead Forest Park in the Forest of Dean with her family for over 25 years. Located just 50 miles from her home, the park has become a cherished destination, described by Jane as a “second home.”
The tradition began in 1999 when Jane first visited the holiday park with family friends Graham and Cath, affectionately known as Grampy Graham and Granny Cath. Having lost her mother at 13, Jane developed a close bond with the couple, who became parental figures to her; Cath even referred to Jane as her “daughter.” Their initial holiday was so enjoyable that the family booked their following visit before leaving, establishing an enduring custom that has now involved three generations.
Over the years, more than 40 relatives and friends from across the UK have joined these holidays. Jane has successfully encouraged many of her acquaintances to visit Whitemead, recognising the importance of having set gatherings as families grow and live further apart. She explained that without such occasions, relatives might only see each other at significant events like weddings or funerals. The annual trip serves as a dedicated time when everyone makes an effort to come together.
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Jane’s children, Jack, 34, and Oliver, 30, have been part of the tradition since they were young. Even now, Oliver, who works as cabin crew and frequently travels internationally, ensures he returns each year. Jane noted, “There was never an age when the kids didn’t want to come.”
One aspect that adds to the park’s appeal is its ability to evoke a sense of nostalgia. With patchy mobile phone reception, visitors can disconnect from digital distractions and social media, allowing them to focus on family interaction. Jane remarked, “It permanently feels like 1999 when we’re there… It feels like something from that era – family being together and making memories.”
The initial trip was organised after Graham and Cath discovered Whitemead and invited others to join. Since Graham and Cath passed away in 2015 and 2022 respectively, Jane considers placing a memorial bench at the park as a tribute. She believes they would be amazed to see how their initiative continues through future generations.
Throughout the years, the family has cultivated their own traditions, such as a Saturday barbecue regardless of weather and an annual adventure golf tournament with a prize pot. Adaptability has been key in coping with the varied British weather they’ve experienced, from snow to heatwaves.
The location also offers encounters with local wildlife, including deer and wild boar, adding to memorable experiences like Easter egg hunts for the children. Two years ago, the park took on deeper personal significance for Jane when she fell seriously ill during a visit. Diagnosed with sepsis, she was swiftly assisted by the park manager, who ensured she received urgent medical care. Jane reflected, “This is our second home and I owe them my life, really.”
After more than a quarter of a century, Jane hopes the tradition of returning to Whitemead continues for many more years to come, as a means for her expanding family to stay connected and create lasting memories.