Jane Roberts, a mother from Stroud, has embarked on a heartfelt campaign to fund a bench dedicated to mental health support, inspired by the tragic loss of her son, Ben Brimley. Ben, who struggled with undiagnosed ADHD for over a decade, tragically took his own life after years of battling mental health crises.
Ben was first referred for ADHD assessment as a child, but it wasn’t until he was 17 that he received a diagnosis—a delay that Jane believes profoundly affected his treatment and wellbeing. His struggle intensified after leaving Cirencester Sixth Form College, turning to substances such as ecstasy, ketamine, and heroin. Despite hospitalizations and prescribed antipsychotics, his underlying ADHD went unaddressed, contributing to his mental health decline.
Since Ben’s passing, Jane has learned that many individuals with ADHD share similar challenges, including self-blame and increased risk of substance misuse. Determined to raise awareness and provide support, she has spent the last five years advocating for better understanding of ADHD and neurodivergence.
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The idea of the bench stems from the Legend On The Bench charity, founded by ex-footballer Mickey Hazard, who lost his nephew to suicide. These benches, first installed in Peterborough in February 2024, serve as quiet, thoughtful spaces with discreet QR codes linking to support resources. Over 100 benches now exist across the UK, but none had yet reached Gloucestershire.
Jane envisions placing the bench on Rodborough Common—a place where Ben found solace outdoors. She is currently seeking permission from the National Trust and has already raised £800 toward the £2,300 goal within days of launching her fundraiser on April 26. The bench will feature discreet messages, helpline information, and a built-in light symbolizing hope with the phrase “Someone is always listening.”
“The outdoor environment was always a comfort to Ben during difficult times,” Jane shared. “This bench can provide that same comfort and a message of hope to others in need. If it helps even one person, it will have made a difference.”
Jane emphasizes the urgency of addressing mental health, noting that suicide remains the leading cause of death among young people aged 5 to 35. While progress has been made since Ben’s diagnosis in 2008, she believes more awareness and support are critically needed.
Her story is a poignant reminder of the importance of early diagnosis, compassionate care, and community support for mental health. Jane’s fundraising and advocacy efforts continue to inspire hope for many affected by similar struggles.